Welcome to Night Vale tweets that are strangely empowering
David Bowie in The Hunger (1983)
'Warrior Stance' - Model: Ajak Deng | Photography: Steven Klein | Styling: Edward Enninful | Hair: Orlando Pita | Make-up: Kabuki | Designer: Vera Wang
Kinksters are so thoroughly groomed by the community that they believe violence fetishes are the only enjoyable form of sex. They’ve been taught to associate violence with arousal, which is why they think people with healthy sex lives are “vanilla” or “prudish”
-Sarcasm mode on because this is just silly-
Yes, I am sure that is exactly what is going on.
Kinky people can never enjoy vanilla sex, don’t you know? It’s not like a good amount of them want or have it.
Anyway, “grooming” in these contexts means something similar to “brainwashing” and is used to describe actions that lower a child’s inhibitions with the objective of sexually abusing them.
Submissive women are not children, treating us as such or acting like we are just brainwashed is an insult to our intelligence and agency. It makes you come off as condescending and we don’t need you to speak for us.
Hawkeye boring Loki to death lol